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Facing The Challenges

August 14, 2008 by alone, under life, study.

believe me, it’s such a hard time in my life.

and i nearly got insane. phew :sweating:

some worst days for me.

some challenges for me.

for me.

It’s a God’s test for me again. after having a few days with fever, i felt better for one day.. and again, i got the package again :sick: (note: package = fever + flu + headache + cough). well, i got no choice other than being patient and taking the medicine (that had been given by doc on previous fever)

yeah, obviously, the sickness had spoiled my work, although it just a simple work and as the result, i was scolded by my group-mate for the ‘cincai’ thing that i had done. i gave some ridiculous reasons because i don’t want to tell my partners that i’m not feeling well, but the things just got worst. omg. but then i know that i deserve to be scolded.

my friends are nice people. the thing that i have to do is telling them - ‘i’m sick’ and they’ll understand. well, i’m just trying to avoid telling the others that i’m sick but i was wrong - you must tell your partners if you got sick. remember this.

second challenge, i feel very depressed and was trying to drop my studio subject. OH MY GOD.

Ya Allah, apa yang aku cuba nak buat ni??? :ooooh:

i think it’s just because of my depressed-feeling.. i got the same feeling when i was in centre for foundation studies.. well.. in both cases.. i’m trying to change course, you know. again, omg.

and just now, dad’s words had made realized.

he said that he and mom never forced me to learn what i want to, but i have to think the best thing for me.

just some points of his quotes:

tension?
“sapa2 pun tension. belajar mesti akan tension. abah kerja hari2 pun tension.”

xboleh biasakan diri?
itu perkara normal. sapa2 pun akan rasa macam tu.

xsihat?
kita kan manusia. ada time sihat. ada time sakit.

xcukup masa?
belajar. memanglah masa xcukup. dah kerja lagilah xcukup masa.

well.. that’s just some of his quotes.

dad, i love you :heart: mom, i love u too :love:

one thing that i realize about group work is - a person must know what is the ability and specialty of his/her partners. it’s not exploitation. it’s contribution.

if u ask me something that i can do better - i could do it better.
if u ask me something that’s my weakness - the result is not as you want

well, enough for today.

syam is having a great day. yeah, i believe that there’s a happy day for me too :angel:

get to work. till fingers meet the keyboard again

p/s : i’m feeling so weak because of the ‘package’. again, being patient is the best thing that i can do.

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36 Comments

At 2008.08.14 04:47, |1f34|-|1r3 said:

i just have a few words for you…

“what does not kill you, makes you stronger”

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- At 2008.08.14 21:31, alone said:
  
  your words makes me think a lot :think:
  
  thanks
  
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  - At 2008.08.14 22:33, |1f34|-|1r3 said:
    
    kata2 tuh senior aku cakap kt aku dulu…skang aku pass kat ko plak… selamat berusaha !! :please:
    
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    - At 2008.08.15 00:59, alone said:
      
      terima kasih
      
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- At 2008.08.14 23:54, aeropama dot com said:
  
  kool quotation from life4hire. i learned somthing new today.
  
  what he said was right alone. any problem come before you, you must decide to take it or run from it. if u take it, u become stronger but if u run from it u still as what you were…
  
  me also facing so many problems everyday. sometime i feel depressed and down. but i developed my own method to overcome it.
  1. know your own ability and strength
  2. take-out negative elements from your problem and throw it far away
  3. overcome the problem with the best solution that suit with your ability
  4. smile, pray and tawakkal…
  5. its done. the problem gone…
  
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  - At 2008.08.15 01:05, alone said:
    
    yeah.. so i have to take it.. if not.. i’m not.. i’m still weak and not gonna be someone.
    
    yup. i realized that working days is more challenging with a lot of depressing moment.
    
    thanks aeropama. my tears falling down reading comments from u guys. thanks. thanks a lot..
    
    i love u all my frens. i love u all. thanks..
    
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At 2008.08.14 11:50, mizzamy said:

~ lor, kesiannya adik ku ini. masih tak sihat rupanya. dah gi check doktor ker nie? selang beberapa minggu kena demam balik. kena amik vitamin c la kot.

entri nie bunyi cam tersangat la stress… jangan terlalu memikirkan kelemahan yg telah dibuat di kala badan tak sihat. sebabnya, u akan lagik nak pikir benda2 yg negatif. contohnya, nak drop subject. jangan!!! sayang la dik oi… skang nie, makan ubat n ikut nasihat dokto. if cepat sembuh, then, everything will going smoothly. so, JGN LUPA MAKAN UBAT!! especially antibiotik. ~

mizzamy’s last blog post..~ Psychology of Jealousy ~

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- At 2008.08.14 21:34, alone said:
  
  bukan selang seminggu, kak. selang sehari je. rasanya sebab doc xbagi ubat antibiotik kot.
  
  ye kak.. rasa badan dan perasaan lemah sangat..
  baik kak.. terima kasih
  
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  - At 2008.08.14 22:45, mizzamy said:
    
    ~ hahh? doktor tak bagik antibiotik? senggal aper doktor tuh? :think: ~
    
    mizzamy’s last blog post..~ Psychology of Jealousy ~
    
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    - At 2008.08.14 23:56, aeropama dot com said:
      
      tak boleh bagi antibiotik sebarangan. kadang-kadang antibiotik membunuh bakteria baik yang membantu sistem keimunan badan. kalau jadi macam tu, bukan makin baik makin sakit ada la…
      
      pergh… cam doktor lak aku ni
      
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      - At 2008.08.15 01:10, alone said:
        
        iya? oh. xpernah tau pasal tu. selalunya makan je ubat yg doc bagi.
        
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    - At 2008.08.15 01:09, alone said:
      
      a’a.. xtaula kenapa..
      
      esok InsyaAllah nak ke klinik luar..
      
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At 2008.08.14 13:18, JuliaNa said:

kadang2 bila ada bende yang buat kita tak happy atau buat kita tertekan kerana terlalu memikirkannya, banyak effectnye pada diri kita, sakit yang memanjang la..stress yang teramat la..tak selera makan dan macam-macam lagi…padahal sebabnya satu bende yang tak kene je.

Wajah yang gembira, tak semestinya dalaman pun gembira..tapi dalaman yang gembira akan terpancar pada wajah yang ceria.

Semoga cepat sembuh ya!! :party:

JuliaNa’s last blog post..Ada apa dengan ‘ 7 Perkara’

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- At 2008.08.14 21:37, alone said:
  
  betul kak.. saya setuju.
  
  wajah yang tenang x semestinya menggambarkan jiwa yang bergelora..
  
  InsyaAllah. terima kasih
  
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At 2008.08.14 13:22, zanurul said:

aloneinhome,
Tidak beriman seseorang itu jika tidak diuji oleh Allah S.W.T sepanjang nafasnya masih lagi berlegar keluar masuk dari tubuhnya.Tidak dikatakan pelajar seseorang itu jika tidak melalui detik2 sukar sepanjang perjalanannya menuntut ilmu. Tidak dikatakan gagah seseorang itu jika tidak diuji kegagahan yang ada padanya dan begitulah seterusnya..

Dari apa segi sekali pun,kita harus bersyukur dan berterima kasih pada pemilik kita, Allah ‘azza wajalla diatas setiap sesuatu yang Dia berikan dan hadapkan pada kita.Berupa ni’mat mahupun ujian.

Manusia selalunya akan bergembira bila kesenangan dan keselesaan yang dikecapinya kini berterusan hingga bila-bila masa.Apabila diuji hanya untuk seketika, dia mula merungut dan tidak boleh terima apa yang dihadapkan padanya kini kerana dia sudah pun terbiasa dengan kesenangan,lalu dia tidak pernah bersedia untuk menhadapi ujian walaupun ujian tu hanya sesuatu yang ringan..

Untuk mendapatkan kemanisan, pasti akan bertemu dengan kepahitan terlebih dahulu dan kemanisan yang kita inginkan itu, akan datang setelah kita tempuhi kepahitan dengan kesabaran dan tabah.

alamak, terpanjang oulak comment kali ni. :timeout:
salam mujahadah!
zanurul’s last blog post..tagged by encik ahmad adlan

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- At 2008.08.14 21:39, alone said:
  
  terima kasih, zanurul. komen itu menyedarkan aku.
  
  banyak lagi halangan dan ujian yang bakal mendatang. hanya iman yang menjadi pendinding. hanya kepada Allah kita berserah.
  
  sekali lagi, terima kasih
  
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At 2008.08.14 18:07, najlaa said:

salam, biase la tu dik…that’s life…belajar pelan2 mcamna nak deal dengan problems…sume ni akan ajar kita tuk jd stronger in d future…stay positive ok…:) jangan buat keputusan terburu2 esp time emosi/ fizikal tak kuat ni…share ur problems..thats important too…:) dun worry be happy!!
najlaa’s last blog post..Dewasakah Aku..?

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- At 2008.08.14 21:43, alone said:
  
  yup. that’s life
  
  betul. seperti kata ayah : masalah mengajar kita untuk menjadi seorang yang lebih kuat. genggam bara api biar sampai jadi arang.
  
  ya. dan saya rasa situasi saya yg kurang sihat ni yang menyebabkan saya xdapat buat pertimbangan dengan waras.. ya.. dan saya mula berkongsi masalah.. terutama dengan ibu dan ayah..
  
  yup. thanks a lot
  
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At 2008.08.14 22:48, myadlan said:

students usually don’t drop the studio subject.. its the subject who make ‘em drop..

myadlan’s last blog post..Welcome to Pulau Pinang

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- At 2008.08.15 01:12, alone said:
  
  yeah. i think i agree.
  
  but i’m not gonna drop myself again. i have to do no matter what happens.
  
  yeah. i have to do it. and i can do it. InsyaAllah
  
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At 2008.08.14 23:30, shila said:

Hi,dik…

Sebenarnya apa yang ayah dan ibu adik cakap tu memang betul..hakikat yang harus kita terima.Di mana-mana saja dan apa saja yang kita buat pasti akan bertemu dengan kesukaran,ujian,sakit,dan macam2 lagi…
Akak pun rasa susah sekarang..kerja sbg pegawai politik,banyak program di hujung minggu,tak cukup masa untuk keluarga apa lagi untuk diri sendiri..Di tambah pula dgn kerja sebagai suri rumah dan ibu..tak lama lagi akak akan mendaftar pula di universiti untuk melanjutkan pengajian..Hmm..pening jugak bila fikirkannya..

Tapi kita kena tabah dan kuatkan semangat.Sebab kekangan yang muncul tu sebnarnya lebih buat kita kuat…Betul tak?

Dan akak yakin benar adik dapat jadikannya sebagai motivasi untuk diri sendiri lebih maju dalam hidup.Good luck!
shila’s last blog post..Yeay! Dapat Anugerah…!!

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- At 2008.08.15 01:32, alone said:
  
  Hi, kak..
  
  betul tu, kak. apa sahaja yang kita lakukan past ada halangan dan cabarannya.. oh.. sibuknya.. hm.. saya sedar banyak perkara ketika ini.. dan saya harap akak berjaya dalam kerjaya dan pengajian akak..
  
  betul, kak.. kekangan mengajar kita untuk menjadi lebih kuat..
  
  InsyaAllah. terima kasih kak!
  
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At 2008.08.15 04:11, ain said:

me got the package too.. huhu…

alone,
setiap org ade journey dia masing2 and the journey is not easy. kdang2 me too rase down. its normal oke. bila down tu cpat2 pk positive. when u got prob, u write down all the negative things. bila bende negetif dah clear kat mind, baru lah otak kite bole terima bende yg positif.

somebody said life is too difficult. Actly life is not difficult but juz how u take it my fren.

ain’s last blog post..hari yg sakit.

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- At 2008.08.15 08:11, alone said:
  
  oh.. i see..
  
  yeah.. the journey is not easy.. ok.. i try that. so the thing is clear ur mindset lah ye..
  
  sometimes i feel it difficult. sometimes i feel it hilarious. well, it’s life.
  
  thanks ain!
  
  and semoga cepat sembuh
  
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At 2008.08.15 09:30, myadlan said:

lupe plak.. kan student slalu komplen klinik uia tu tak best.. doktor pun mcm mls nk cek betul2..

papehal pun, aku pegi klinik uia gak. sbb free! hehe

aku ske ayat kt packaging pill tu..

‘when i’m sick, it is He who cures me’

its not the medicine..

myadlan’s last blog post..Welcome to Pulau Pinang

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- At 2008.08.18 00:23, alone said:
  
  yup.. er.. setuju :batting:
  
  hehe.. yup.. it’s free
  
  yeah.. i also like the quote.. but we also have to put our effort, right?
  
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At 2008.08.15 09:48, shila said:

whoops…lupa nak beritahu..ada award untuk adik di blog akak…datangla amik ye..hehe

shila’s last blog post..KHASIAT SUP SARANG BURUNG

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- At 2008.08.18 00:23, alone said:
  
  dah amik.. thanks kak
  
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At 2008.08.15 11:47, cikF~ said:

xpe…sakit tu kan penghapus dosa…

cikF~’s last blog post..TaG 7~ A to Z…

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- At 2008.08.18 00:34, alone said:
  
  betul.. setuju
  moga2 diampunkan.. InsyaAllah
  
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At 2008.08.16 18:47, Jannah said:

Hello fellow urpian!
URP can be very cekik-fying tapi once a semester is over, you’ll realise how much change you will see on yourself!

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- At 2008.08.18 00:37, alone said:
  
  yeah?
  
  i take it as a compliment. thanks
  
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At 2008.08.17 06:09, mizzamy said:

~ still demam lagik ker? kesian sungguh kat adik ku ni. ~

mizzamy’s last blog post..~ I Hate The Driver Lorry ~

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- At 2008.08.18 00:38, alone said:
  
  Alhamdulillah.. dah ok sikit..
  
  terima kasih kak
  
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At 2008.08.19 23:08, anaspamie said:

cik nasrul.. ur dad’s right ak pon facing d same thang
1 more thang ko jgn le hesitate to tell the real thing..kalo saket ckp je saket.
at least grup member ko taw ur real situation kn?
papepown be strong ey

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- At 2008.08.20 07:48, alone said:
  
  yup..
  
  okeh.. i will.. and Alhamdulillah.. i feel like recover enough..
  
  yup. thanks
  
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