While waiting for myself to sleep, I was thinking about various issues especially what I’d read through media. And then I came to a topic – early marriage. Oho. I guess most of you understand this term.
There are a lot of interpretation of the term ‘early marriage’. Let’s just assume one definition for this post – marriage under 25 years old.
Early marriage – what do you think?
Feel free to leave your vote through the poll and I love to see your comments below =)
i dun agree!!!study n finding a good job come first..coz, my coursemate married early this year, b4 she get married, she keeps on saying she’ll finish her study first then only get pregnant, want to support her family, bla3…then after married…she never attend classes, n this sem she end up extending…bcoz she’s pregnant..n seems to me she’s not interested in studying anymore… n i dun want to end up like that….
Get married early = get children early. By the time you are 40-50, your kids are all grown up, perhaps married. So you can have a peaceful retirement days. If u get married later, say 30, imagine that in your retirement days, you would still have to send your own kids to school. I would say yes to early marriage, but it should only happen when you are financially stable, have a job, lead a stable life. or else, you might face hard times later.
At 25 many people have had the opportunity to have a broad range of experiences and have a good idea of what they might be looking for in a husband or wife, but others may not. To set a specific age range for marriage is misguided and pressures people into decisions that may not be right for them.
nak kawin tu.. ikut suka la kan
but the thing here is… dah cukup duit ke nak jaga anak dara org?
takkan nak makan pasir kot?
lagi plak for girls out there yg nak kawin awal (with pasangan yg either sebaya or muda) korg nak hidup susah ke?
personally for me la kan.. sape yg tanak kawin hehe
but there are a lot of things to think about
would you like to spend the rest of your life with someone when you haven’t got a clue what you really want in life? ie an establish job, further studies, ronggeng sampai puas dulu lol
it’s a different story if the partner is someone older; gaji stable hehehe
marriage is the best solution for a human and brings peace & stability for the ummah. but there is also a lot of things to concern because marriage is about responsibility, right?
and yeah. marriage is also about sharing including the objectives in life.
* gosh. have to think a lot of things, right? :question:
last time saya against it. but now, my thought about this matter dah totally change sangat-sangat. cus it works dgn cara yang berlainan with orang yang berlainan dan with reasons yang berlainan.. to me, hal ni un-debate-able..
oh yeah. nono changed her previous statement! :heart:
but I agree with you. you’re right. it’s different when you’re with different person. btw, I guess you already have one, right? ohoho. soalan provokasi!
hoho… i am single with lotsa scandals.. lol..
well the thing is i havent found the one yang i can really-really-really fall in love with.. well actually, i’ve found him but.. it is such a long story to write here. haha. but apa yang nak cakap cuma, the feeling tu just fade away.. but we are good friends yo! ;P
salam
i would say YES, if u r totally ready to hold the responsibilities, then go for it.
but, why not have a good position first, helps our parents hehe
the ideal age to get married is 25-27. i guessed
=)
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I say YES!
gosh. bersemangatnya!
I got married when I was arround 21… and I don’t regret anything. so I’d say YES.
wow. glad to know that. sounds inspiring for me :halo:
my classmate get married last year, 20 years old.
hmm. they are happy. but, that is not me. i might suffer if i get married early. haha.
yeah.. it depends on the person. and it’s about responsibility
i vote for nope. haha.
well. i believe you have your own reason
i dun agree!!!study n finding a good job come first..coz, my coursemate married early this year, b4 she get married, she keeps on saying she’ll finish her study first then only get pregnant, want to support her family, bla3…then after married…she never attend classes, n this sem she end up extending…bcoz she’s pregnant..n seems to me she’s not interested in studying anymore… n i dun want to end up like that….
uh. gosh. yeah. I know about some cases like this. love is blind and we human only could plan, right?
anyway, I hope your coursemate will success in her life happily
Get married early = get children early. By the time you are 40-50, your kids are all grown up, perhaps married. So you can have a peaceful retirement days. If u get married later, say 30, imagine that in your retirement days, you would still have to send your own kids to school. I would say yes to early marriage, but it should only happen when you are financially stable, have a job, lead a stable life. or else, you might face hard times later.
i agree with Mael santoroyo. for me, early marriage is ‘on’ when your financially is stable. if not, never think about it. study is our priority now.
yeah. I guess you’re right
p.s: patience is virtue, my dear
Yes. I agree! :kiss:
So it’s better to be early, right?
But when we talk about money, I’m thinking about holding a sec :question:
It simply depends on the individual.
At 25 many people have had the opportunity to have a broad range of experiences and have a good idea of what they might be looking for in a husband or wife, but others may not. To set a specific age range for marriage is misguided and pressures people into decisions that may not be right for them.
So, in my opinion. Early Marriage = Maybe.
Totally agree :thumbsup:
Me too :thumbsup:
Yeah. I believe that a person shouldn’t being forced to marry because marriage is about responsibility, right?
yep. maybe
i vote for both… yes :thumbsup: and no :down: .
depend on the “niat”…
i see. yep. you’re right. it depends on niat. make sure you intention are right before doing something important in your life!
aku tulis dlm BM je lah ye. aku tak ngaji tinggi
baik kawen awal. nanti rugi woo :heart:
itu je
hehe. merendah dirinya
kawen lambat pun ada untungnya juga (rasanya lah. haha)
yang penting.. kawen
nak kawin tu.. ikut suka la kan
but the thing here is… dah cukup duit ke nak jaga anak dara org?
takkan nak makan pasir kot?
lagi plak for girls out there yg nak kawin awal (with pasangan yg either sebaya or muda) korg nak hidup susah ke?
personally for me la kan.. sape yg tanak kawin hehe
but there are a lot of things to think about
would you like to spend the rest of your life with someone when you haven’t got a clue what you really want in life? ie an establish job, further studies, ronggeng sampai puas dulu lol
it’s a different story if the partner is someone older; gaji stable
hehehe
very agree with your points
marriage is the best solution for a human and brings peace & stability for the ummah. but there is also a lot of things to concern because marriage is about responsibility, right?
and yeah. marriage is also about sharing including the objectives in life.
* gosh. have to think a lot of things, right? :question:
last time saya against it. but now, my thought about this matter dah totally change sangat-sangat.
cus it works dgn cara yang berlainan with orang yang berlainan dan with reasons yang berlainan.. 
to me, hal ni un-debate-able.. 
oh yeah. nono changed her previous statement! :heart:
but I agree with you. you’re right. it’s different when you’re with different person. btw, I guess you already have one, right? ohoho. soalan provokasi!
hoho… i am single with lotsa scandals.. lol..
well the thing is i havent found the one yang i can really-really-really fall in love with.. well actually, i’ve found him but.. it is such a long story to write here. haha. but apa yang nak cakap cuma, the feeling tu just fade away.. but we are good friends yo! ;P
salam
i would say YES, if u r totally ready to hold the responsibilities, then go for it.
but, why not have a good position first, helps our parents hehe
the ideal age to get married is 25-27. i guessed
=)
yeap. agree!
we have to arrange it based on priorities. hm.. 25-27.. sounds good for me
yap. i also say yes.