Before You Regret

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“Am I think before I do something?”
“Am I did the wrong things today?”
“Am I regret of what I’d done?”

These questions keep running in my head, especially while waiting my eyes to close down at night.

Life is full of choices, we have to choose them.

Think, observe, then think again, again, again, and again.

Before you regret.

This post is not related with the book ‘Before You Regret’ written by Harun Yahya. However, i had red the book and sincerely, it’s an interesting book :batting: . You can download it here:

www.harunyahya.com/regret01.php

back to the point.

That’s a reason for every entries that I post. The entries at least, must be related to myself.

:neutral:

I found myself as a guy who seldom thinking before doing something. I always prefer act as the first step, and then keep thinking as the next step. That means, I always act before i think.

And as the result, I always regret of what I had done.

Well, I wanna make myself as well as you realize – do something without thinking is hazardous not a good thing to do.

And I got several points.

- you will regret on what you had done, maybe forever
- you cannot rewind the time, even if you can repair the damage you’ done
- you gonna be in deep s***t trouble :eek:
- you might lose trust from the others
- you might get other problems after what you’d done

The Matters

I’m not doing research in family matters, and I don’t have any experience about this thing, but as far as I read from the mags and newspapers – most of the divorce cases happen when people ignore to think before they doing something, to be specific – saying ‘words’.. :mad: and then regret on what they said and done. And I’m very sorry to see those children become the victims of these ignorance.

And yet, I still found a lot articles about girls who chose the wrong paths – having babies without legal father :sad: . Gratefully, they regret and repented. It’s surely a good thing to repent, but why don’t you think before you do the wrong things?

Well, i don’t want to talk more about this, just to show how an ignorance of this matter can make you regret until the rest of your life.

Regret In Life

Everyone will feel regret, the different is – what the thing that make they feel regret.

A student will feel regret as well as a university student or a people who in working life. A student may feel regret if he/she can’t score in exam because didn’t concentrate enough on study, a daddy may regret because he can’t even teach his children to become good people and bla.. bla.. bla..

The conclusion is, you feel regret because of the wrong things that you did.

The Solutions (?)

These are some ways that I found for myself to solve this thinking-ignorance. They are based on my opinion, maybe you have the other ways those are more effective than mine.

1. Take time to think before doing something

2. Write something that you want to do – the write the possible effects, positive and negative

3. Ask for other people opinions – friends/colleagues/parents – before taking any action

4. Always believe that you have the ability to think – so think rationally

5. Revise the thing that you had did – to avoid you repeat the mistakes that you had done

Well, i’m neither a motivator nor a psychologist. I just write on what I feel and what I wanna share with the readers.

The best thing that I get

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saffa

:) Frankly speaking, I’m a type of girl who think too much and always end up feeling regret. Haha..
Everything happen for reasons. I’m also tried not to be drown in the feeling of regret and find the silver lining.

saffa’s last blog post..[GUILTY] I’m So Sorry

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!x0r@

laa.. da bole komen ke? semalam tak bole. huu,terlepas peluang jadi first. uhuhu

!x0r@’s last blog post..August attraction!

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callister

saya adalah manusia yg suke wat je dulu, pas2 tanggung la..
saya juga manusia yang kalo nakkan sesuatu, kalo xboleh pun sy nak bolehkn jugak…itula selalu jd mslh pd saya..
nak kata menyesal memg dah bertimbun2 dah penyesalan 2.. :cry:
frankly, sy rasa sy dah byk berubah, kpd yg lebih baik tp ada byk lg benda2 yg xbek yg belum sy ubah.kena ubh satu2..progress is a slow process..
mungkin dgn cara 2, masalh dan penyesalan sy akan berkurangan…eh sy ni lari dr topik ke? :tongue:
anyway sm mcm ixora, apesal smalam xleh nk komen?

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alone

haha.. yeah.. sometimes thinking also not enough for us to make the right choice. we need help :loser:

yep. u r right. everything happen for reasons :wink:

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alone

yup. semalam mengantuk kot. terlepas pandang nak aktifkan comment.

maaf. huhu :please:

follow me on twitter and maybe u could be the first :callme:

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alone

oh. saya pun. hehe :tongue:

tapi lama-kelamaan, saya rasa takut untuk buat sesuatu tanpa observe. sebab dah banyak kali saya menyesal :roll:

don’t worry.. you gonna be a good person.. no matter it’s quick or slow.. just put ur effort on it :cool:

hehe.. xdela lari topik sangat :grin:

a’a.. semalam terlepas pandang – xaktifkan comment. huhu :isk:

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callister

haha..bagus la kalo xlari dr topik..kalo xwat malu je.. kalo wat karangan lari dr topik, confirm dpt kosng..
:tongue:

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aeropama dot com

berfikir keterlaluan kadangkala menyebabkan kau buat sesuatu yang sia-sia… kadangkala gagal juga perlu sebagai satu cara pembelajaran…

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KNizam

aku suka yang neh – Life is full of choices, we have to choose them.

hehe :)

KNizam’s last blog post..080808 – Olympic 2008 at Beijing, China

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callister

yeah..life sucks when we have no choices..
betul x?

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alone

cikgu saya masa sekolah rendah dulu cakap.. lari tajuk xpe.. tapi dapat 15/100 la..

(berpengalaman. isk3) :isk:

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alone

betul juga.. perlu berfikir sebelum buat sesuatu tapi jangan terlalu berfikir sehingga menjejaskan diri kau.

aku setuju. gagal juga adalah salah satu proses pembelajaran :cool:

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alone

yeah.. you are absolutely right :cool:

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callister
myadlan

learning from own mistake can increase one maturity level..

only idiot repeat the same mistakes.

p/s- learn thru mistakes!

myadlan’s last blog post..Proton Technology Week

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alone

yup.. as pepatah melayu says:

“jangan biar pisang berbuah dua kali”

anyway, some people never learn thru mistakes.. and they regret all times :roll:

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zanurul

how about this…
we are too old to do all the mistake and to take a lesson from it. we must learn from others mistakes to..dont do d same mistake twice

one thing, we need family n friends to remind us from make a wrong doing

fazakkir fainna zikra tanfa’ul mu’minin

zanurul’s last blog post..beit muslim

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alone

no matter old or young.. mistake is mistake.. yup.. learn from others’ mistake and.. never let the mistake happens twice.. :loser:

yea.. family and friends.. never let urself a lone ranger

ala bizikrillahi tatmainnal qulub

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ain

yeah never let the mistakes happens twice….

appericiate urlife…

ain’s last blog post..somebody

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